<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8" standalone="yes"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"><channel><title>Community Rules on Vivaham</title><link>https://vivaham.site/tags/community-rules/</link><description>Recent content in Community Rules on Vivaham</description><generator>Hugo</generator><language>en-IN</language><lastBuildDate>Wed, 07 Oct 2026 11:00:00 +0530</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://vivaham.site/tags/community-rules/index.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title>How community filters work on Vivaham</title><link>https://vivaham.site/blog/community-filters/</link><pubDate>Wed, 07 Oct 2026 11:00:00 +0530</pubDate><guid>https://vivaham.site/blog/community-filters/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;When elders arrange a marriage, they already know their community&amp;rsquo;s customs: which clans are related as brothers, and which families are suitable. On Vivaham, we try to bring that knowledge into the search — without taking the decision away from your family.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h2 id="two-filters-to-start-with"&gt;Two filters to start with&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Every profile starts with two filters switched on:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Same tribe only.&lt;/strong&gt; You see people from your own tribe.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Exclude same clan.&lt;/strong&gt; You don&amp;rsquo;t see people from your own clan — whatever your community calls it: &lt;em&gt;gotra&lt;/em&gt;, &lt;em&gt;kur&lt;/em&gt;, &lt;em&gt;killi&lt;/em&gt;, &lt;em&gt;paris&lt;/em&gt; or another name. In matrilineal communities such as the Khasi and Garo, this is the mother&amp;rsquo;s clan.&lt;/li&gt;
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&lt;h2 id="filters-for-your-own-community"&gt;Filters for your own community&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Many communities have more customs than these two. A Gond family may look at the &lt;em&gt;saga&lt;/em&gt; — the number of gods a family worships. Others look at the mother&amp;rsquo;s clan, or avoid marriages within the same village. Vivaham shows the filters that apply to &lt;strong&gt;your&lt;/strong&gt; tribe only.&lt;/p&gt;</description></item></channel></rss>